Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Keep Calm and Photo Contest On!

This week, I'm running a contest for the best travel photographs featuring the work of you, my lovely readers!  Look back at what you have captured through your camera lens on past adventures and share it for your chance to win.  The best overall photo will be awarded a prize and winners of each category will be featured on a future blog post.

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Categories:

A Taste of Local Flavor
(best shots showing culture)

It Was Just a Spur of the Moment Thing
(best candid shots)

Which is it - waiting in line or on line?
(best shot of architecture)

A Little of This and That
(any great photo from your travels)


Fine print:
- Each person may submit only one (1) picture per category, for a total of four (4) pictures overall.
- Please indicate the category of entry and, give a title/small description of the photo.
- Photos must have been taken by you.  No copyright shenanigans!
- Photo content must not contain any explicit, obscene, graphic, or otherwise inappropriate material.
- Email photos to shekeepscalmandtravelson (at) gmail (dot) com
- Winning photos will be displayed on this blog.
- Entries will be accepted until 11:59pm EST on 9/8/12
- Best Overall Winner must be located in the United States for shipping of prize
- Winner will be contacted for shipping information.

Sunday, August 26, 2012

Keep Calm and iPhone on

Just a quick post today as Mr. C and I are on a trip to D.C. this weekend to visit some friends.

Leaving a car in a giant parking garage can be disorienting, especially at airports as you have plenty else to worry about other than remembering your parking spot. Here is a great tip - take a picture of the floor or sign where you left your car so you will be able to easily return to the spot.


Until next time, travel on...
Maggie

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Sights and Bites #2

This weeks Sights and Bites takes us across the country to Sonoma and Napa in the great state of California.  As a brand new married couple, Mr. C and I wined and dined our way through a week of honeymoon-wine-country relaxation.  It is so incredible how different the California landscape is compared to the New England area.  I'm usually not the type to sit back and enjoy a car ride - driving for me is just the means to getting to a destination.  However,on the West Coast, the views were just so intriguing that I didn't mind hoping in the car time and time again for our adventures.


To get our barrings in our hometown for the next week, we kicked off the trip with a Platypus Wine Tour of Sonoma.  Our guide, Alison, picked us up at our hotel around 10:30 in the morning.  We were the first group to be picked up, so we sat back as she drove around to a few other hotels to gather the rest of the soon-to-be-sommeliers (wine-speak for "knows his/her stuff about the deliciousness that is grapes+barrels+time).  Alison, a local who calls trivia at the local watering hole every Wednesday, made sure to tell us the highlights of her town as we made our way through the area.  It was a perfect way to not only enjoy driving-free wine tasting, but to also get plenty of good ideas for restaurants and events to explore later in the week.

Our stops for the day included smaller, lesser known wineries that allowed us to often times meet the actual winery owners and truly feel their passion for making special wines.  We experienced Loxton Cellars, Canihan Family Cellars, Nicholson Ranch, and Larson Family Winery.  As we were with a special tour group, almost all of the wineries waived the tasting fees, especially if we bought a bottle to leave with at the end of the visit.  This was a good thing as most tasting fees in California are more than I typically spend on a bottle of wine in general, let alone just a few sips.

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Later that evening, feeling like we had a good grasp on our local digs, we ventured into downtown Sonoma and found a cute local place for dinner.  The Girl and The Fig was our choice and I am so glad that it was because it will stand out in my mind as one of the most delicious meals of my life!  After a brief wait, we were seated out on the back patio and our very gracious waiter came with water, shared the specials, and brought over bread and oil.  In California, even though the days are very warm, the temperatures drop to teeth-chattering levels pretty fast at night, so I was so happy to see that the restaurant had tall heat lamps throughout the back patio to keep guests comfortable as they ate.  We of course had to order something with figs due to the name of the restaurant, so we shared an arugula salad with goat cheese, pancetta, figs, pecans, and port vinaigrette.  Mr. C also tried something new when he ordered a bourbon & bacon.  I was quite skeptical about the drink but did eventually take a little sip.  The maple-syrup laced drink wasn't bad and certainly was different, but not something that I would personally order.  Given the chill in the evening air, I ordered the soup of the day (a potato and local veggie puree) and it was phenomenal!  I have never have such a fresh tasting soup with such a silky consistency.


The next day, we decided to dedicate some time to the more well-known area of wine-country and we took the 20 minute or so drive over to Napa.  We started at the Oxbow Public Market where we grabbed coffee and pastries and strolled through the stalls of arts, crafts, infused olive oils, wine wares, and more.  Our first wine stop was the Robert Mondavi winery as that is a name that we both recognized and we wanted to see how the experience would contrast to the smaller, family-owned wineries we had visited the day before.  Well, contrast doesn't feel like a strong enough word - the palatial building was spectacular, but we found any kind of welcoming atmosphere to be completely lacking.  I felt as though our wine tasting was holding up the employee who was pouring for us and that stepping on the grounds or taking pictures was just looked down on.  Not a great way to kick off Napa, huh?  Luckily, V. Sattui came to the rescue!


We parked the car, took in the beautiful grounds, and walked around the busy marketplace of the winery before settling in for a picnic lunch.  Not every winery allows guests to sprawl out on their lawn, but V. Sattui was more than welcoming.  We laid out our blanket, uncorked our wine, and dove into our spread of grapes, berries, fresh bread from the Oxbow Market, cheddar cheese, and garlic artichoke spread.  Once had enjoyed our meal beneath the shade of a knotty, twisted tree, we decided it would be time for some wine tasting!  We both sampled about 8 wines which ranged from dry, crisp whites, to full-bodied berry reds, to tawny ports that warmed you up at least 10 degrees with every sip.


At first, trying to decide what to do in Sonoma and Napa felt overwhelming due to the sheer number of wineries and great restaurants in addition to the "need to see" recommendations from everyone I spoke to before we left.  Once we realized that there was not one perfect wine country experience, we were able to relax, take in what we could, and leave some great options for a future return trip.  So, with that said, Mr. C and I both highly recommend wine country for a trip that will delight the senses from the amazing sights of the vine-covered hills, to the oaky taste of local wines, and to the tantalizing smells of the meals that will energize you for your adventures.

Until next time, travel on...
Maggie

Friday, August 17, 2012

Think Money Can't Buy Happiness? You're Doing it Wrong...

The Happiness Project

At the risk of being judged harshly from just the title of my post today, I wanted to share this notion that I came across while reading Gretchen Rubin's book, The Happiness Project.  Gretchen does not mean that holding a stack of crisp $100 bills will instantly bring you long term joy.  Rather, she writes (excuse me while I paraphrase), if something like horseback riding makes you happy and you need to spend money in order to take part in this activity, then it is absolutely fair to say that spending your hard-earned dollars on leather saddles, riding shoes, and stable boarding has bought you happiness.

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For some people, giving to their favorite charity warms their heart and yet for others, throwing a big dinner party for friends with fancy wine and extravagant food brings them joy.  Everyone also has things that they view as a complete waste of money - maybe it is spending a day at a casino and going home with possibly more, but possibly less money.  For others, shopping for the newest, most fashionable clothes can be seen as just throwing away money for something that won't even be "in" for much longer.  It all comes down to what we each value in our lives.

For me, I take away much happiness from spending money on travel.  The anticipation of a vacation, the actual traveling, and then the memories that allow me to relive adventures time and time again are all things that make me smile.  Yes, money is a factor for this, but I don't need to go on an lengthy getaway to some remote tropical island.  Even driving up to Vermont for the weekend with Mr. C by my side, just a few short hours away, is something that brightens my life.

How does money buy you happiness?

Monday, August 13, 2012

Tray Tables Up Please...

I'm sitting in my office, outlook calendar open and color-coded, telephone glued to to my ear, and excel spreadsheet windows opened all over my dual monitors.  It must fall travel planning time at work!

With my shoes off, Pandora on, and coffee in hand, I dial up high school after high school to schedule my visits for the fall.  Currently, I'm listening to yet another quality piece of "music" while on hold (usually some intense clip of music from the high school marching band/drum circle/chorus group).  To pass the time, I have been searching the internet for some good travel tips and I came across this funny piece put together by Reader's Digest (yes, that 4x6 magazine that only your grandparents subscribe to).  They have listed out some of the top things your flight attendants wish they could say to you.  Here are some of my personal favorites:


- The lavatory door is not rocket science. Just push.


- Want to start off on the wrong foot with me? Put your carry-on in a full overhead bin, leave it sticking out six inches, then take your seat at the window and wait for someone else (me!) to come along and solve the physics problem you just created.

- I hand you a cup of coffee and say, 'Cream and sugar?' You say, 'What?' I say, 'Cream and sugar?' You say, 'What?' Come on, people. What do you think we're going to ask after we've handed you coffee? Your favorite color?
- No, it's not OK to come back into the galley to stretch and bend over with your rear end in my face while I'm in my jump seat during my only break, trying to eat a meal.
- Just in case you hadn't noticed, there are other people on the airplane besides you. So don't clip your toenails, snore with wild abandon, or do any type of personal business under a blanket!

PHOTO: A flight attendant giving instructions in an airplane aisle.
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- Passengers are always coming up to me and tattling on each other. 'Can you tell him to put his seat up?' 'She won't share the armrest.' What am I, a preschool teacher?
- Do you really have to go to the bathroom right now, while we're wrestling a 250-pound food cart down the aisle? You can't wait 90 seconds for us to pass?
- Do not poke or grab me.  I mean it. No one likes to be poked, but it’s even worse on the plane because you’re sitting down and we’re not, so it’s usually in a very personal area. You would never grab a waitress if you wanted ketchup or a fork, would you? 
- You really expect me to take your soggy Kleenex?  Or your kid’s fully loaded diaper? I’ll be right back with gloves.
- Sure, I don’t mind waiting while you scour the seatback pocket and the floor for candy wrappers and other garbage, then place them in my bag one by one. I only have 150 other passengers to serve.
Murray the Nut: Plane Boarding
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- I don’t care if you want to be in the mile-high club, keep your clothes on. 
Who decided the mile-high club was something that everyone wants to do anyway? It’s cramped and dirty in those bathrooms.
- If you hear us paging for a doctor or see us running around with oxygen, defibrillators and first aid kits, that’s not the right time to ask for a blanket or a Diet Coke.

Until next time, travel on...
Maggie

Friday, August 10, 2012

Keep Calm and Wish on a Star

This weekend, Mr. C and I will be joining about 15 other friends from our Alma mater for a summer reunion.  We will all be traveling up to Dover-Foxcroft, Maine for a weekend of pontoon-boat cruising, sun soaking (if the weather holds out), lobster eating, and of course enjoying the company of some of our closest friends (no matter what the weather does).

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One thing that I am especially excited about is the fact that the Perseid Meteor showers are scheduled to be at their best on the night of August 12th.  Normally, we are too close to bright city lights to really experience how spectacular shooting stars are in the night sky, but our home for the weekend should make for a great viewing spot!

I've always been one to make wishes - when I blow out birthday candles, when I brush a lost eyelash away, when I find a lucky penny, when I see double times on a clock (11:11, 4:44), and of course, when I see falling stars.  So, this past week, I have spent sometime thinking about what I will wish for if I am lucky enough to see some of these falling stars up in Maine.

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Now, I know most people say "you can't share your wish with others or else it won't come true!" but I think that was just made up by people who were too nervous to share their dreams for fear of being told they were thinking too big or too far out of the box.  Personally, I think I agree more with the mindset that if we don't wish, dream, or think about what we want in life - how can we achieve our dreams or get anything to change?  Anyway, here is what passed through my mind as I prepared for hundreds of free wishes to fall from the sky tomorrow night.

I wish for....

....less worrying.  I luckily don't many concerns of much consequence in my life, but I do want to be able to let go of things that I can't control.  I love the quote, "Worry doesn't help tomorrow's troubles, but it does ruin today's happiness."  It is tough for me, but I'm working on just relaxing and enjoying the moment rather than dwelling on the "what ifs."
....the ability to remember as many little details from our wedding day as possible.  All of my planning paid off and I was able to just enjoy the day and take in all of the joy and love that surrounded myself and Mr. C back in June.  I hope that our stories, pictures and video will help keep the memories of family, friends, and fun in my mind forever.

....good decision making.  When the day comes for me to reflect back on my life, I want to be proud with how I moved through my years.  This doesn't mean that I want every moment to be perfect (oh, how I dislike that word), but it means that I want to know that I stood up for what I believed in, treated others with care and respect, especially when it was hard to, and that I took the time to slow down and enjoy the little moments in life that are often some of the most special times.

....more dessert.  I didn't say all of these were going to be "deep" or thoughtful, now did I?  Who doesn't want another Hershey bar here or there?  Bring it on!

The next time you see a four-leaf clover, a dandelion that has turned to white puff, or the number seven, remember to take a few seconds and make a wish.  You never know what you can accomplish if you don't dream first!

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Until next time, travel on...
Maggie

Sunday, August 5, 2012

Sweet Tooth

At the momemt, gray skies are lurking overhead and I'm keeping my fingers crossed for a big "power is out, flashlights are on" kind of thunderstorm.  Earlier today though, it was a typical warm, sunny August day in Boston.  Four other girls and I adventured together through the Back Bay area of Boston on a Chocolate Walking Tour.  We had purchased a Groupon for this months ago and finally got around to scheduling an afternoon for this fun (and tasty) event!


We met our tour guide Alissa outside of the first stop on Newbury Street, along with about ten other chocolate fanatics around 12:15pm.  Right off the bat, she was friendly, witty, and willing to tell jokes about chocolate even if she didn't get much response from the tame group.  It brought me back to my tour guide days in college of hoping for at least a pity laugh for my "debit and credit" accounting jokes (let me tell you, they were pure gold).

We were able to visit five different locations that ranged from the fancy $84 per pound Swiss chocolatier, the quirky shop packed with old-school candies and toys, and the familiar name brand store, Lindt.  We had samples at each store (some gave one, while others offered up to five different types for us to try). 


one of my favorite, old-school candies

Alissa had good relationships with each of the stores (read - more samples and discounts on purchases) and was even willing to call ahead to stores to make sure they had your favorite in stock so you knew what to expect.  Our tour took about two hours and we all decided that we had enjoyed just the right amount of chocolate and still had room for a late lunch.  We stood by the Boston Public Library and Trinity Church while we pondered where to grab a little bite.  We ultimately picked a wine bar that was tucked into a tiny nook of space on Newbury Street that specialized in small plates and italian food.  It was a great afternoon out on the town.

Our view while we decided on lunch  

If you take one of these tours, here are a few tips:
  • I was happy to have worn comfy shoes as we strolled up and down Newbury Street and in and out of the stores.  Also, it was helpful to have sunglasses since Alissa spent some time with us outside of each store giving us the heads up on what we would be seeing and sampling inside.
  • I didn't expect chocolate to make me so insanely thirsty, but I was certainly glad that I had tossed a water bottle into my bag.
  • Of course, I had my wallet with me so I could buy full size versions of my favorite samples, but I would recomend that you have some small bills with you as well so you can give your tour guide a tip for a job well done.  Alyssa kept us all excited and engaged, even in the oppresive humidity in Boston today.

What adventure did you go on this weekend?

Until next time, travel on...
Maggie

Thursday, August 2, 2012

She Dreams On...

In life, it seems that just about everyone creates their own bucket list.  Some go with a formal written list in a notebook, some discover possible options through The 101 Things in 1001 Days website, while others just catalog their ideas in the privacy of their own minds.  

In 2010, when I was diagnosed with breast cancer, I was reminded how many amazing things there are to do and the number of incredible places to see in life, but how little time we have to fit it all in!  I felt compelled to make a list of my own.  Some view these bucket lists of things to do before we die as depressing, but at the time, creating a list of future adventures and hopeful accomplishments was my motivation to keep up the fight and to stay positive that better days would be ahead. 

So, what was on this list?  For me, it was certainly going to include something about travel, something about family, and hey, you can't use money when you're dead, so something about shopping!  First up, make ourselves a "real" family by adopting a dog into our lives.  One year later, my life was in a dramatically different place, I was feeling healthy, Mr. C and I were engaged, and we felt ready to take on the challenge of a puppy.  Just like that, we adopted Murphy, a rescue from Puerto Rico.  We welcomed this little 13 pound creature into our home (and faster than I could have ever expected - into our hearts).  People ask if we feel burdened by having to take care of a dog, but my answer is always absolutely not.  All of the puppy kisses, tail wags, and snuggle time outweighs the early-morning snowy walks, grooming, and yes even the poop-scoopin! There is nothing like looking into the eyes of a dog and having him peer right back at you - it is as if I can feel his understanding that we saved him from a shelter and his appreciation for giving him a second shot at life in a forever home.

My next item on my list was a trip to Paris.  I'm still not sure why this location stood out to me as the next (and hopefully not last) place I wanted to visit as I have already been lucky to travel to Paris twice before and I speak Spanish, not French.  Anyway, it felt right, so it was added.  The reality of life set back in and I decided to put off this trip for awhile since I had already taken off a lot of time from work for doctor appointments and surgery recovery.  Lately, I've been thinking of pulling this trip back towards the top of the list again.  It was something that I wanted to make happen and it was something motivated me to push through the exhausting days of chemo, the pain of surgery, and the unknown of radiation.

The one thing that I haven't followed through on must have been thought of at the height of taking my pain meds.  Even though I have a perfectly nice car that I love, I decided that I wanted a Lincoln MKZ.  I'm not quite sure where the money was going to come from for this little wish list item and I still to this day haven't even sat in, let alone driven, one of these cars!  I have decided that I'm going to keep it on the list because even though I know I'm not going to buy this for myself, it is still a fun thing to picture cruising around in.  Even if just thinking about the possibility of splurge on such a crazy purchase brings me a little smile, it can't be all bad.

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Of course, there have been many other special family moments, travel adventures, and (more reasonable) purchases since my diagnosis, but these three stick out of the ones that I kept at the top of my mind to cheer myself on during what was a tough time.

So, tell me, what is on your list?

Until next time, travel on!
Maggie

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Sights and Bites #1

This series will feature both worthwhile sights to feed your soul as well as great stops to feed your belly!  Let's embrace this summer weather and learn more about Salisbury Beach, Massachusetts.  Recently, my hubby, Mr. C, and I traveled up here for a little sun and sand with another newlywed couple.

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We got to the beach early in the morning, around 9:00am, which meant we were able to easily snag a street parking space for free.  So many beaches around Massachusetts have entrance or parking fees which can be in excess of $20 at times!

The day started out cloudy, which kept the air comfortable and the ocean feeling like ice.  Don't forget - cloudy days are deceiving!  Some of the worst sun burns are from cloudy days because people incorrectly assume that they don't need to slather on the SPF like normal.  Whether you think you need it or not, a little SPF 30 (or above for my fellow pasty friends) can go a long way.

We set up camp with our towels laid out, umbrellas anchored into the sand, and coolers stationed in the shade with waters, snacks, and lunches (more on the bites to eat later!).  Before settling down on our towels, the four of us enjoyed the open space still around us so early in the morning and played Frisbee and passed a football around for awhile.  Finally, we felt like we had worked up a sweat and figured that the ocean would now feel perfectly refreshing.  We were wrong.  The only way to enter the way was to sprint in before the cold could take your breath away and you realized that you were absolutely nuts for voluntarily leaping into an ice water bath!

After flopping down on our towels, we all laid out for a bit to soak up what warmth we could from the sand and the slowly emerging sun.  Eventually, after I could feel my toes again, we all decided that it was chow time!  Our fellow beach buddies had picked up lunch for us that morning at Bagel World in the town of Reading.  I had asked for a ham and cheese bagel sandwich and was delightfully surprised with the Havarti cheese on my sandwich over the standard white American.  The bagel was fresh - soft inside and just the right amount of chewy on the outside.  It was a great idea to bring along bagel sandwiches to the beach as the dense dough was able to stand up to staying in a cooler for a few hours until we worked up our appetites.

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By now, we were surrounded by many other beach goers who hadn't gotten quite as early of a start as we did, but were still looking for a day by the water.  There was a mix of older folks taking it easy, young families with little ones digging in the sand, college-aged coeds sunbathing in their hip shades and trendy bikinis on and country-pop tunes playing.

In the end, the sun did beam down on us pretty strongly causing us all to reconsider just how terribly cold the ocean felt before.  We all got up the guts to give it one more go and let me tell you, it was so much better!  The temperature now felt not only bearable but refreshing once you dared dip in past your shoulders.

After another round of lounging around on our towels, we decided to pack up for the day and head home.  This was my first trip to Salisbury Beach, but I'm hoping that Mr. C and I can make it here again this summer.  I would recommend it to anyone looking for a clean beach with respectful other beach-goers and chilly but easy-to-manage waves.  Also, if Reading is a town en route to your beach adventure, snag a packable lunch at Bagel World (and get their Havarti cheese!).

Until next time, travel on!
Maggie